Monday, 25 November 2013

Hurry Up and Wait

Tis the season of hurry up and wait. If there is any time in the Christian year when it is appropriate to learn the discipline of sitting with ourselves in the stillness, Advent is it. Yet every year, Advent springs upon us just as we’re gearing up for finals- and patient waiting couldn’t be further from our minds.

Over the last several weeks, I’ve seen a steady but predictable decrease in students attending midday prayer in the chapel and an equal increase in people coming on their own to de-stress through meditation or jamming on the piano. Students studying English as an Additional Language are learning the word “stress” for the first time and even the cafeteria is unusually empty over lunch.
It is strangely counter-intuitive, then, to begin December with a practice of quietness which helps us step back from the rush of exams and holiday preparations to simply wait. This doesn’t have to take a great deal of time, but I encourage you to set the coming season apart as different, as new, the hope-filled waiting that our ancestors declared it to be.

When I was a student, I found my Advent practice to be particularly refreshing amidst the busyness because it reminded me that there was more to life than my impending exams; that this too would pass and the world we long for will one day be a reality. Each night before going to sleep I would light the appropriate candles in my Advent wreath and say a simple prayer before sitting in silence before God, watching and waiting for something much more than the end of term.
My second practice during school was a wonderful little Advent meditation put out by my Lutheran chaplain friend, Sherry Coman, and her colleagues. Last year it included a short reflection, some kind of service response to the reflection happening in the world, a musical meditation, and a prayer. What it’s going to look like this year is still a surprise! I’ll post the URL here when it becomes available on December 1st, but in the meantime check out their facebook event: https://www.facebook.com/events/574263379294230/.

What about you? What kinds of contemplative practices are you going to engage this Advent as you practice waiting and watching?

3 comments:

  1. Last year I was a train wreck! But that brought me to a greater understanding of Advent. I'm still learning how to wait upon God.

    I don't know what practices , I will be engaging yet. Maybe someone will surprise me with something :)

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  2. You make a good point Paul- I'm sure that my most fruitful experiences of Advent have been when I've had zero to offer, was too spent to do contemplation "properly" and just ended up sitting before God each night. Train wrecks know a thing or two about waiting and hope!

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  3. I recommend listening to Sergei Rachmaninoff "Vespers" this time of year (and other times, too). Here is my favourite: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=gW2w2ApVY5M

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